SamWhether you’re out and proud, an ally supporting a friend, or you’re just starting to explore your queer identity, Pride month can be intimidating. Pride is a wonderful time of year to celebrate love and life. But if this is your first time joining in on the festivities, here’s a few tips to help you overcome any fears.
Find the right Pride for you!
Pride comes in many forms, parades, festivals, parties, drag shows, film nights, and so much more. Thankfully we’re in a time where there’s never been more ways to celebrate! If the big city Pride fests just aren’t for you, don’t worry, you don’t have to miss out. Do some research and find a more low-key event in your area. If you’re unable to attend any official Pride events due to location or comfort level, then get a group of loved ones together and throw your own Pride night!
Be Prepared!
Pride can be an amazing experience, but if you’re planning on keeping the party going all night, try to think ahead. Bringing a hands-free bag can help you feel prepared without getting in the way of the fun. Sunscreen and a water bottle are must haves when you’re out all day in the June heat. If you’re lucky you’ll find some queer-owned businesses to support during the festivities, just be careful not to go over your budget while still enjoying yourself. Make sure to have your phone fully charged before going out incase of emergencies. Overall, just remember to have fun and stay hydrated!
Go with friends!
Pride events can get pretty crowded and overwhelming, so if you have people in your life who can celebrate with you then invite them along! Try not to stray too far from your group, and stay in areas you know are safe. If you plan on drinking then remember to have a designated driver, or bring cab fare along. If you’re going out of town for Pride, consider getting a hotel nearby so you don’t have to worry about getting back home safely. If you don’t have anyone to go with then don’t stress, just do your best to be safe and enjoy yourself! You can also consider volunteering with a local LGBTQ+ organisation if you’re trying to find new friends within the community.
Have fun!
Though coping with anxiety in a new space can be difficult, remember that Pride is a time to embrace who you are and feel at home within the queer community. Don’t be afraid to dress up if you want to, but if that’s not your thing then don’t feel any pressure! If you’re nervous, try to remind yourself that you are in a safe and welcoming space, no matter how you identify. Put yourself out there and feel the love!
